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Post by Guest on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:36 pm

I dont care to be honest.

Its a life issue one needs to overcome

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Post by simplytom on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:39 pm

So your basically saying you wouldn't mind been bullied every day for a year?

Be my guest might change your perspective on bullies

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Post by KarmaChameleon on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:40 pm

So you're saying, Derri... That if you are buliied it makes life easier? Without bullies there would be no mean comments, therefor no reason to be "prepared." There is NO reason whatsoever to be a bully. At all. If you disagree with this, it only shows you are a bully.

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Post by Guest on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:44 pm

Bogumil wrote:So you're saying, Derri... That if you are buliied it makes life easier? Without bullies there would be no mean comments, therefor no reason to be "prepared." There is NO reason whatsoever to be a bully. At all. If you disagree with this, it only shows you are a bully.

how does this make me a bully all I am saying there is 2 sides to every coin.

also simplytom I have been bullied, well not in the most common sense but bullied none the less and to me it has teached me a lesson.

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Post by simplytom on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:46 pm

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Bogumil wrote:So you're saying, Derri... That if you are buliied it makes life easier? Without bullies there would be no mean comments, therefor no reason to be "prepared." There is NO reason whatsoever to be a bully. At all. If you disagree with this, it only shows you are a bully.

how does this make me a bully all I am saying there is 2 sides to every coin.

also simplytom I have been bullied, well not in the most common sense but bullied none the less and to me it has teached me a lesson.

As i said i've been bullied to dont see its made me a better person can't stand bullies never will and no it doesnt prepare me for later life in the slightest i wouldnt want anyone i know to be bullied because it will "be better for them in later life" not one bit

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Post by Guest on Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:51 pm

this is open to personal opinion/experiance

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Post by Jess on Sun Dec 04, 2011 5:03 pm

SilverWolf wrote:bullying is a part of life in so many ways, the best you can do is stand up to them...

bullying does prepare you for later life when you go into the big wide world..

how is it a part of life?

for some, it ruins their lives. for some, it ENDS their lives

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Sun Dec 04, 2011 9:51 pm

I completely agree with Jessica, because for some people who get bullied it ruins their her perspective of life and makes them believe that they truly don't deserve life....now how does that prepare you for life..I mean we only have one life to live can't we just have fun with no drama?

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Post by foamy on Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:17 pm

Nice words make sad people happy. Not nice words make sad people sadder.
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Post by Guest on Mon Dec 05, 2011 3:54 am

I have said all I have got to say on this matter

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Mon Dec 05, 2011 5:53 pm

But can you answer why you think it makes people a better person?



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Post by Darth Pyrinikon on Mon Dec 05, 2011 5:58 pm

Whats the point in bullying? Can someone explain that to me? All it does is make people feel bad, so whats the point? Is it to make others feel bad so you can feel better? I don't know, I don't get it.

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:14 pm

To others who are insecure it's to make themselves feel stronger, and more powerful than others, but truthfully why even do it?

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Post by Darth Pyrinikon on Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:18 pm

Ty. Bullying just leads to more bullying. Some people bully because they feel bad, so they bully to make themselves feel better. But then that makes others feel bad so they bully etc....

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:47 pm

Bullying causes soo many problems...we need everyone to understand this, and we also need the person being bullied to be the better person without engaging them.

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Post by Guest on Fri Dec 23, 2011 8:48 pm

Ahhh..Kyle, I've seen that video b4...very sad indeed.

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Post by justateen on Sat Dec 24, 2011 12:12 am

Also, bullies bully because they may have a tough home life, but thats still no reason to make other peoples life hell. Get a counselor.

A lot of people call me a nerd in a negative conotation, but I use it as energy to feed my lifes fire. Nerd=smart person...smart=good

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Post by Alexandra on Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:15 pm

I think people bully because they're trying to show power. They aren't confident in their own abilities so they try to put down those who threaten them. I used to be bullied, not constantly at all, but I know what it feels like. I know she doesn't, I hope, but my older sister tells me she hates me quite often.

What about harrasment? That happens to me at my school. These guys they call me....strange, strange things while also complimenting me for the WRONG reasons.

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:45 pm

I think all bullying stems from how they are treating at home, because if they have a bad home life they will often rebel, and think it's okay to treat other people that way, and I also agree with that last part about being harassed, because that has happened to me as well...

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Post by Alexandra on Sun Dec 25, 2011 9:26 am

How they are treated at home might be the cause for making them insecure. They are trying to prove to themselves that they are smarter, stronger, and more clever than others. They are trying to keep themselves from being on the bottom because they feel like they already are. Well, with harrassment, what do you do when you're called at by hockey players, you're walking across campus at night and the creeper yells from his barrack window at you. I don't know who these people are.

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Post by Hutch on Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:01 pm

A member of the staff and I have decided to re-open this topic. Continue

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Post by Sapphire on Sat Apr 21, 2012 11:59 pm

Jess wrote:
SilverWolf wrote:bullying is a part of life in so many ways, the best you can do is stand up to them...

bullying does prepare you for later life when you go into the big wide world..

how is it a part of life?

for some, it ruins their lives. for some, it ENDS their lives

I agree with Jess here, it shouldn't be a part of life period, no one should have to suffer from it at all.
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Post by Short Circuit on Sun Apr 22, 2012 5:24 am

Silver Assassin wrote: the best you can do is stand up to them...


I took that advice, got beat up and suspended from school for fighting.

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Post by Guest on Sun Apr 22, 2012 7:39 am

Kyle wrote:
Silver Assassin wrote: the best you can do is stand up to them...


I took that advice, got beat up and suspended from school for fighting.

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Well then your school is just stupid. Any school who bothered to make any kind of investigation would know you were being bullied. Unless you went up to them and randomly started fighting. Then of course your going to get excluded.

Also as for what I posted in earlier in this thread my opinion has slightly changed since then. That's why I prefer to start new threads on topics like these. Rather than continuing to post from something that's old.

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Post by Ninja Yellow Monkey on Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:07 am

Kyle wrote:
Silver Assassin wrote: the best you can do is stand up to them...


I took that advice, got beat up and suspended from school for fighting.

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I think it's wrong to suspend someone for simply standing up for themselves, because then people who are being bullied will just take what is given to them. I also think before getting into an all out fist fight you should go tell an adult, and ask to be saying all of your problems with that individual be anonymous.

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